On The State Of SS&R
[Ed. note: Sideout11 with some excellent advice regarding BEdgers and any other "drive-by trollers" from other teams. He is absolutely right; I'll be taking his advice, and I hope you will, too. Please rec this FanPost so that it stays near the top for a while.]
If you are a regular here on SS&R then the following post is a must read. It is meant as a response to all of the inflammatory and baiting remarks coming from other fans, or what are known as drive-by posts. Together we can ensure that their presence does not clog up our message boards, while keeping SS&R and inviting and open forum to those who wish to make intelligent, open-minded comments.
Other team's fans will often troll throught SB blogs, looking to dump feelings and opinions that would likely be rejected from their own blog. This is a problem we a currently experiencing with certain Blazers "fans," but rest assured the radicals of every team will do this depending on when they play the Lakers. If these people wish to bitch and moan about how our ideas are unfair to their team or just plain hate on the Lakers, there is nothing we can do other than ignore them. By doing so we deprive them of the satisfaction of their arrow hitting its target, whereas arguing with them will only validate their purpose, which is to illicit a reaction.
The trollers will demean, disregard, bait, poke, and prod each and every one of us into giving them a vessel through which they can vent their frustrations, but we mustn't give them the satisfaction. The moderators will kick out those who cross the line (it is obvious when someone does), but as for the rest we must stand strong and endure. Just like the child crying out for attention, once these trollers realize that their provocations are falling on deaf ears, they will leave in search of a new audience. Until then, just act like they don't even exist. They cannot continue to argue if they have no one to argue with.
The Lakers are one of the two most successful franchises in NBA history, but with such success comes a lot of bitterness and ill will. We, just like the Lakers when they hit the road, must endure. Eventually members of this community will become familiar with one another and be able to moderate and defend their own comments by using the arguments of others. Until that time, please use this model of giving the cold shoulder as a means of defense. I know that all of us deep down want to put these trollers in their place, but we will only end up wearing ourselves out because these people do not listen to reason. If they did, their ideas would be welcome on their own blogs and there would be no need for them to come here.
Lastly, this post is not meant as a mandate, but rather a guideline. Comments from other perspectives are more than welcome, even encouraged. This diversity is what makes the SB community such a unique tool. So long as the comments are done in a respectful and well-supported manner, feel free to respond and debate the topic at hand. Just remember to apply the same standards of respect and evidenciary support that we require of them. Also, please act accordingly when visiting other SB blogs. Do not retaliate to drive-bys by firebombing another blog with hate, as the trollers responsible are often not even associated with their teams blog. Here at SS&R, we want to present ourselves to the online community as intelligent and thoughtful fans while building a strong reputation for this up and coming blog.
One day this will all get better, I promise. To quote an annonymous person:
“The light at the end of the tunnel is not an illusion. The tunnel is.”
(Please rec this comment so that it can stay up long enough for everyone to see it)
Go Purple & Gold!
[Ed. note: Another thought. When I was a child, my younger sister loved to bait me, hoping to illicit a response. My parents insisted that if she got one, she "won," and that all I had to do to "win" was not let it bother me, and not react. It took me until the age of 15 to listen to them, but when I did, it worked like a charm.]
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In summary...
Don’t feed the trolls.
I’ve been blogging here in SB Nation for more than two years now and from my experience, trolls will never stop trolling until you stop replying to them. They will try to provoke by making inflammatory remarks or downright stupid statements. Sometimes you can’t help but hit back or put them in their place.
What the moderator from the Titans community usually does is to give out warnings once personal insults are used or if the commenter is obviously a troll, and/or puts a stop on the commenting if the thread gets out of hand. Rarely or probably never did he ban anyone.
Go Titans!
I agree with this post. As moderator you have decide what you can live with and ignoring trolls is usually the best approach.
Give out warnings
And come up with a short list of prohibited things like maybe:
- Racist stuff
- Irrelevant political stuff
- Irrelevant stuff in general
- Over the top language
- Posting non-suitable pics
And then just do what you can live with.
Hey, anybody want to talk about the Jazz games coming up? I’m a little tired of reading about Portland and the Blazers.
Great post, but I’d like to take it a step further
1. I think we can turn this post into a memo on what type of community we want the blog to be. We do this by keeping a link to the post readily available, and if a troll does come in, instead of just completely ignoring it, respond with a link to this post so they know why no one is rising to the bait.
2. This might come off as sounding a bit harsh, but we have to take a look in the mirror and make sure that our contributors are living up to the standard we are looking for from rival fans. I’m not saying that any Lakers fan should be turned away or discounted, but regulation of the good guys here is just as important as regulation of the bad guys, lest we end up looking like hypocrite douchebags.
Along those lines, I have to point out that the whole reason this post even exists is because of a post that WE had about the Blazers. Josh, I’m definitely not telling you how to run the blog, but I don’t think anybody would disagree with the fact that the Blazers post was a bit antagonistic. Was it relevant to previous posts from Blazers fans? Yes. Was the reaction to it overblown? Yes. Did the less desirable of the BEdgers take it and run to whatever kind of flame-war starting topic they wanted? Absolutely. But it’s sort of like a reverse "Field of Dreams" effect, "If you antagonize, They will come." The post’s title alone was antagonistic, because the truth is that the Blazer’s (and their fans) britches won’t be re-sized until something actually negative comes out of their playoff series. What if the Blazer sweep the Rockets with ease in 4 double digit victories? It’s extremely unlikely, but to say that they’ve been put in their place before anything has actually happened, well let’s just say I could see why the BEdgers might get a little butt-hurt over it. The topic could definitely have been addressed more respectfully. So, in summation of all of this, if we want a fun, friendly site where everybody is groovy, then we have to be proactive about taking the higher ground at the beginning so that the degenerates don’t even have an excuse to jump in.
by C.A. Clark on Apr 17, 2009 11:22 AM PDT reply actions 1 recs
I agree
with the title of the topic of that post being “incendiary.” As soon as I saw it I knew there was going to be some trouble. Ideally, that shouldn’t have happened. Some bad apples spoiled the atmosphere for a while and I’m sure Josh didn’t intend the post to generate those responses.
But I think the SS&R community and SBnation in general can all learn something from this. We’re here to support our teams.
That being said, GO LAKERS!!
I'm not in denial, I'm just selective about the reality I choose to accept.
Agree to Disagree
Dutch, you are absolutely right about needing to shine a mirror on ourselves. This must be a constant. And it must also be up to the other members of this community to politely point our when one of our own has crossed the line. This will only strengthen the community.
As for Josh’s post, I thought it was fine. It wasn’t excessive or insulting. The Blazers probably are looking past Houston and as a result I am sure that they are blogging about us over at BE. That’s fine, and given the fact that they are a likely match-up we can blog about them too (then they can say we’re getting too big for our britches-lol). I will say though that the story probably belonged in a fanpost and not the front page.
Lots of good ideas
MiledAnimal — Unlike many, I could care less if you want to “shout” “First!” It really doesn’t hurt me in any way that I can think of. I’ve never done it (in truth, it puzzles me), and yeah, it’s probably silly — but isn’t it even sillier to get worked up over something so inconsequential? I won’t have any rules against that.
Pinoy Titan — well-put advice. I will admit to you guys that it’ll be a new approach to me, at least as a blogger (as I said, it’s one I’ve used on my sister, and to great success). My approach at Respect Kobe was to always focus on the agruments, rather than the arguer, but to debate the point as long as they want to. If I can be permitted to say of myself that I’m a pretty strong debater, it usually ended up that they got tired and left, and we haven’t had any trolls on there in quite a while.
That said… I’m making a commitment to go with the approach you guys are advocating, and I do hope that it works.
olf — Good ideas, and we’ll definitely be working on a shortlist of rules that will be unacceptable. The rest, though perhaps undesirable, we’ll just have to ignore.
FryingDutchman — Let’s continue this discussion until we get things pretty well figured out, and then we’ll draft something that sort of serves as an SS&R manifesto. That can be something we use to clue people in to how things are done around here.
I wholeheartedly agree with your point that Lakers fans must be held equally accountable for their behavior. To that end, last night I did ask a couple of Lakers fans to steer clear of the personal insults, and when putting an end to a flame war, I let both parties know how I felt about it, and that they’d both be banned if they didn’t help me out by just dropping it. I was glad to see them willingly do so. In our rules, when they are decided upon, it will be made clear that Lakers fans are equally “bannable,” and that we should hold each other accountable to a higher standard of conduct. I appreciate that in practice, some are already rising to the occasion and doing just that.
Point taken about my post. I’m with Sideout11, for the most part, in that I really don’t think it was inflammatory. Meanwhile, I don’t really see a problem with discussing other NBA teams on an NBA blog, as that seems relevant to the overall topic. That said, referring to the Blazers’ britches was perhaps a bit antagonistic, and while that wasn’t my intent, it was a mistake on my part. Thanks for being willing to speak up.
That said, it’s led us here, to a point where we’ve immediately realized a need to make certain things clearer, and to take steps to build a stronger, more intelligent, more enjoyable community — rather than just assuming that it will happen naturally. I think that’s a very positive by-product of the whole discussion, and I welcome all of your input, and your efforts to make this a fantastic Lakers community.
We want to develop a community with all of the positives of Blazers Edge or Celticsblog, but without some of the strong negatives that we’ve become keenly aware of over the past couple days. I’m confident we can do that.
Strength & Honor
Oh yeah. I meant to drop a couple of cliches on you too :-)
Don’t worry about pleasing everybody. Just find something simple that you can live with. And adjust it as you go along.
There. I got all those cliches out of my system and I feel better.
Now enough about the Blazers & Trolls. Let’s dissect the Jazz.
The vein of my comment
wasn’t so much to criticize your post as to point out that if you give a troll an inch, he’ll take a mile. If you don’t want him to have the mile, you can’t give him the inch. Outside of the title, I didn’t take much issue with the whole thing.
I also agree with what Sideout said, if that had been a fanpost it blows over a lot quicker. As a post by the main author and moderator of the blog, it could be seen more as a throwing down of the proverbial gauntlet. Not your fault if it was taken that way, but possibly a lesson to be learned.
I also thought you did a great job trying to keep both sides of the aisle under control once it became clear that the situation was deteriorating. That was a great first step towards creating a strong, positive community, IMO. And you are absolutely right, regardless of what path we took to get here, nothing but good can come of us discussing what we want the community to be about.
great!
now everybody, let’s make SS&R one of the best Lakers blog out there. Let’s promote good content here, up to date Lakers/NBA news, friendly bantering between fans, intelligent/sensible arguments, etc.
And just maybe we would escape from replies like this on our posts. :-)
Go Titans!
by Pinoy Titan on Apr 17, 2009 10:52 PM PDT up reply actions
I don't think too many level-headed fans have a problem with that...
…but as a Suns fan, it beyond completely annoying to see Lakers fans troll the boards on YouTube, ESPN, FoxSports, and even AZCentral (the main local paper in the Phoenix area). Most of the time, they’re telling us that Kobe is the greatest player alive and that he could own anybody and any team, especially our Suns. Honestly, the only intelligent Laker fans that I have been “privileged” to see are at Forum Blue and Gold. Hopefully, I’ll be able to see that here too, b/c compared to most other sports sites/blogs, fans at SB Nation are much more respectful and much less homeriffic. Hopefully, the same can be said about Lakers fans on Silver Screen and Roll. Congrats on the SB Nation blog, btw!
Agreed, somewhat
I’d say SB Nation appears to be a mixed bag… some great people here, but we’ve had some interesting experiences already, to say the least. But here’s to hoping, we aim to see the same thing.
Strength & Honor
by Josh Tucker on Apr 18, 2009 10:31 PM PDT up reply actions
Big blogs are forms of mass media...
And you’ll always have a cross-section of smart fans, smart-ass fans, and idiots…
I don’t think any team’s fans are fundamentally different than those of any other. There are reasonable people and there are homers and there are people who get their fun out of flipping a little shit at hated opponents and there are people that know nothing and annoy everyone with simplistic platitudes and slogans…
Big boards have MORE OF EVERYTHING. The reason there are so many obnoxious Blazer fans or Laker fans out in the ether is because there are MORE Blazer fans or Laker fans out in the ether… There are also, if one takes a “glass half full” view of things, more INTELLIGENT Blazer fans and Laker fans out there.
It’s all a question of population size. Some teams have huge fanbase based on winning tradition and national exposure (Lakers, Celtics, Bulls, etc.). Then there are small, rabid local fanbases (Portland the best current example, but don’t think Sacramento or Seattle or Utah would have been any different if past great teams were doing their thing in the current internet world). The big followings of each of these teams mean — more presence of both idiots (who are apt to be noticed) and smart fans (who might well be overlooked).
Anyways…
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by timbo on Apr 19, 2009 11:42 AM PDT up reply actions 1 recs
Well said timbo
There is one person on StR that said Kurt of FB&G is an idiot cuz he’s a Laker fan. I didn’t agree with it then; don’t agree with it now. That person is still posting there, but rarely posts anywhere else. In fact, I’ve noticed, among other things, there are few Kings fans who post anywhere but StR.
I think too many fans, and this is probably a bad generalization, are too hermetic, and don’t realize how different each fanbase is.
I’ve always thought of each SBN blog as something along the lines of: If you’re on SS&R, then discuss the Lakers BEdge: Blazers. SLCDunk: Jazz, and so on & so forth. Talking shit on other teams blogs isn’t useful; in fact it clouds up my personal intent by going to those places which is to learn more about those teams.
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